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Oct. 2nd, 2024 09:05 pm

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Ta-Nehisi Coates is one of those writers where I will read him at any time, anywhere. Like, his writing is just that good - I always know that I can look forward to a deep dive, beautifully crafted sentences, and serious thoughtfulness about whatever the topic is. I pre-ordered the book and it arrived yesterday and I finished it in one sitting. It's not as impressive as it sounds - the book is fairly short and has pretty large print, but it is packed. You could get a lot of material out of it.

It's basically 3 essays addressed to his students about what writing is for, and the purpose of it. He writes about his trips to three specific places - Senegal, South Carolina, and Israel/West Bank. It is this last part that is getting the most attention. He went viral two days ago for this hostile morning show interview with a Zionist who all but accused him of basically being a terrorist sympathizer. Watch it for the rapid-fire hasbara accusations, and for Coates to basically stand his ground, morally, in saying "Apartheid is never justified". He did an interview with Jon Stewart that is better, and worth watching:



And also with Chris Hayes:



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I got this book from the local Buy Nothing group. It's kind of funny because our Buy Nothing group's literary tastes usually consists of the following categories: children's books, cookbooks, and airport thrillers. Oh and outdated self-help books. I have always really liked Erdrich's writing, and this book was a pleasant read about a very unpleasant topic. My only complaint was that it kind of ends a little abruptly and I want to find out what happens to the rest of the characters.

The Night Watchman is inspired by Erdrich's grandfather, who mobilized members of the Turtle Mountain Reservation to fight the termination policies of the 40s-60s, which would have ended federal recognition of the sovereignty of individual tribes. It was not successful for this tribe, but it happened to a lot of other tribes, and the consequences meant that indigenous peoples suffered and died in poverty. It follows the Thomas Wazhashk, and his family and friends as they live their lives, survive, and try to figure life out in a world actively trying to get rid of them. Every character is nicely sketched out, and there are some very funny moments.
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 Ok, I have been dropping a lot of money on humble bundles, but that's because they have really good ones!

Chronicle Books Bundle: Start something new - includes stuff like How to Build A Hovercraft, Master the Art of Chinese Cooking, etc.

Home Sweet Home Quarto Books - tons of gardening books, Learn to Weld, Ultimate Slime

Be the Change - Parable of the Sower graphic novel, Black Women in Science, various activist books. 
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A first person account of life in Wuhan, China, by Fang Fang, during the beginnings of the covid-19 outbreak, is available for $3.99 as an ebook, translated by Michael Berry.  
Jun. 2nd, 2020 11:17 pm

fyi

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For anyone interested, The End of Policing is free as an ebook right now. 
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Oh hey, I am finishing books these days! Points to the Libby app for helping me do this! 

Dear Girls is formatted as a series of letters from Ali Wong to her daughters, who are currently infants, in which she basically explains her life, and gives advice about how they should live theirs, i.e., don't date DJs, steal everything from the hospital when you deliver, etc. It is hilarious, and is somehow way more explicit and raunchier than her stand-up specials on Netflix. She makes sex sound like the grossest thing ever, and also talks about how her husband looked like "Speed Keanu" when she met him. (Lol I just googled him, he's pretty handsome.) There's some great chapters in here, especially about her time doing study abroad in Vietnam, and of course the chapter about how to find a decent Asian restaurant. That made me laugh because we tried to go for dim sum today, and my sister called the restaurant, and asked if there was a wait, and the woman at the other end of the line said sarcastically, "You should come and see."

The last chapter is written by the husband, and is a sharp tonal shift from Wong's sharp wit and fast pace. Honestly he writes like a sweet hippie who's very supportive of his wife and kids. 

The one thing I wish she had gone into more detail on was the pre-nup her in-laws made her sign before they got married. Honestly really curious about that, but that's just me being nosy. 
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I have never done a reading challenge, but a bunch of these sound interesting. (I'm kind of allergic to the "read diverse books" types ones, though, because it's something I have always done without a prompt.)
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 Inhaling Queer Eye media:

Naturally Tan, by Tan France - This is not revealed in Tan's book, but rather in Karamo's book - apparently Tan doesn't go by his given name "Tanveer" because if you see that name in the media, "it's always a terrorist". This is typical for Tan's book - there's so much gossip and surface stuff, but for the really deep stuff you have to go to other sources to actually find out about him. What is there is pretty interesting - he has a chapter on how 9/11 pretty much turned his world upside down, and how he spent a lot of time trying to figure out what went wrong, and why everyone seemed to have it out for him after that day. He talks very sweetly about the cowboy he fell in love with, but does not really mention how his parents reacted to it (you have to find out from other interviews that he basically hasn't even introduced him to the rest of his family yet, and it's not even clear if they've even met him). He's very proud of the French tuck; apparently prior to joining Queer Eye he became pretty successful with a modest clothing fashion company. The chapters he devotes to this is pretty interesting if you're into how fashion manufacturing works. He thinks Americans are way too passive aggressive, and thinks that women here are too obsessed with "fit and flare" silhouettes. 

Karamo: My Story of Embracing Purpose, Healing, and Hope, by Karamo Brown - This was written before he joined Dancing With The Stars and made friends with Sean Spicer. After reading it, I understand why he would try to be friends with Sean Spicer, but I think it's still dumb and misguided of him to do so. He talks about going on The Real World did a total number on him, and how afterwards, he earned money by showing up at different parties. He also talks about having a pretty addictive personality - he would get addicted to a particular drug, and once he realized it was spiraling out of control, he would remove himself from the environment and the people and basically dump all his friends in order to sober up. Anyway, he also talks about how he impregnated a friend, and how that information made its way back to him years later, and he decided to commit to actually being a father. He also talks, very sadly, about no longer having a relationship with his father because of his gayness. Oh, and I didn't know this, but apparently Karamo's parents are immigrants. I wish they had actually talked about this more during the actual show with the various heroes. It kind of reset my perception of him. 

Over the Top: A Raw Journey to Self-Love, by Queer Eye - This one was the best-written of the books so far, and it's also a lot to absorb. Jonathan details so much self-destructive behavior that it's kind of heartwrenching to read. By the time I got to where he's finally stopped doing stupid things, it was a total relief. I like listening to his podcast Getting Curious sometimes, but I really have to be in the mood for it. It's like his book, fast-paced, and going a million miles a minute, and all over the place. 

Anyway, all of the books are worth a read. 


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 bookmarking https://www.ebooks.chroniclebooks.com/ for their monthly ebook sales. 

this month: Plenty by Yotam Ottolenghi, Ruhlman's Twenty by Michael Ruhlman, W. E. B. Du Bois's Data Portraits: Visualizing Black America, The Falconer (book 1 of a series) by Elizabeth May
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1. Five of the best living writers

Maxine Hong Kingston
Kiese Laymon
Rebecca Solnit
Ta-Nehisi Coates
Helen Rosner

2. Five formative books

Autobiography of Malcolm X - as told Alex Haley
Matilda - Roald Dahl
Child of the Owl - Lawrence Yep
Their Eyes Were Watching God - Zora Neale Hurston
White Boy Shuffle - Paul Beatty


3. Five books you recommend to anyone
Their Eyes Were Watching God - Zora Neale Hurston - honestly feel this is one of those books that's as close to perfect as it gets
His Dark Materials - Philip Pullman
Any James Tiptree, Jr., but especially the short stories
Kindred - Octavia Butler
Wizard of Earthsea - Ursula LeGuin

4. Five books that are overrated
Harry Potter series
Game of Thrones series
Crazy Rich Asians series - these were a fun read, but in no way was it deep or anything and the politics of race relations in it were definitely problematic
Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad - can't tell you how many times we had to read this for college English classes, and then also read Chinua Achebe's essay, An Image of Africa: Racism in Conrad's Heart of Darkness (pdf link), only for the prof to inevitably conclude that Achebe had a point, but Conrad wrote so beautifully and also had a point. Both sides! 
Jane Austen - I have tried and failed so many times to get her.


5. Books people expect you to have read based on your background/job/interests

Uh I was an English major - everybody expects me to have read everything. And I do credentialing for my job which is a very dry, boring thing that does not really lend itself to literature.

6. Have you read them?
I have not read a lot of the English/American people I'm supposed to have read, like James Joyce, Virginia Woolf, etc. I've only half-read Wordsworth and Walt Whitman.


7. Books you recommend based on your background/job/interests
Ok, this one does have to do with credentialing: Blind Eye: The Terrifying True Story of a Doctor Who Got Away With Murder - a true crime story about how this serial killer doctor keeps getting away with murder because he kept moving to different states and people never checked his credentials or job history because it wasn't legally required. It's a pretty gripping, terrifying read, and although some of these things have been rectified, if you've been reading the stories about USC, obviously not enough has been. 
Based on being Asian American - anything by Laurence Yep. I think he's really underrated as a very prolific writer, who also doesn't stick to your standard upper/middle class immigrant story. Like Child of the Owl hashes out tensions between the working and professional class Asian Americans and it was way more relatable than a lot of so-called "classic" Asian American literature. 
Currently I'm just in this mindset of reading a lot of self-improvement, and am reading Marie Kondo's Spark Joy, which is the sequel to The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. It is oddly soothing to read, and it's full of practical advice from her about how to organize and store your things once you've done the stuff in the first book. (Note: I tried to do it buf failed because of life, kids, moving, etc.)


8. Books that have been on your to-read list for years
Been meaning to read a bunch of Ursula Le Guin (esp since I just got myself the illustrated Wizard of Earthsea book - it's gorgeous), would like to read a lot of the new YA that's out now, especially the scifi/fantasy ones.


9. Books you like to have around 
Anne of Green Gables series, all of my children's lit like Roald Dahl, Phantom Tollbooth, etc.

10. Any spicy book takes?
Russian novels are tedious.
George R.R. Martin, J.K. Rowling, and Tolkien really needed their editors after their first novels. I never finished Harry Potter because I got so bored with it. Martin, I do not need to know every time Tyrion takes a leak. Tolkien, WTF was Tom Bombadil?
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May. 18th, 2019 07:12 am

random

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The Real Reason Why Fans Hate The Last Season of Game of Thrones - It's not just bad storytelling—it’s because the storytelling style changed from sociological to psychological.- Interesting food for thought. I actually haven't been watching the show that much, and have been getting spoiled for everything from my ranting husband (by choice, I don't really care anymore). I also never finished the books - I think I may have gotten through three or four of them, and may have thrown the book when I got to a chapter that opened up with Tyrion pissing off the side of a boat or something.

I am having a hard time getting worked up about Google having all of my receipts, and sorting them usefully, if I have purchased them through an app for which I used a Google account. I have always assumed that this was the way Google worked. There's plenty to criticize Google about, but I don't really think this is one of them.

Ok, the His Dark Materials trailer actually looks pretty good? 



Exactly as it says.

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The true heroine of Crazy Rich Asians is actually Kitty Pong, who's basically the Asian Becky Sharp.
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It was Becoming by Michelle Obama. I used to read soo much, but between chores, work, kids waking me up at 5 or earlier every goddamn morning, I've been 1. going to sleep like an hour after the kids do, and 2. spending most of my free time playing Candy Crush because I don't want to concentrate too hard on anything else. This year, I'm trying to work my way back into reading. I also joined Litsy because I wanted to try non-Facebook/Google/Amazon social media. They are owned by the LibraryThing people. It's basically like Instagram for book nerds. A ton of random people followed me as soon as I posted. It doesn't seem to be that diverse but I could be wrong; people with their pics seemed to be mostly white women and there was one black woman who was running a Black History month hashtag. Anyway, you can find me there as toastykitten if you want random thoughts and quotes from the books I'm currently reading.

Anyway, Becoming seems to be your typical First Lady memoir, except that Michelle Obama grew up working class and black. I really liked the description of her relationship between her and Barack Obama, in which she describes him as this "free spirit" who was attracted to her and her family's steadiness. And, I don't know if this is an inappropriate comparison, but it also reminded me of the relationship between Anwanyu and Doro in the Octavia Butler in the Patternist series. Also, Michelle's writing is way more grounded than Barack's. I remember having a hard time reading through Barack's memoir, even though it was beautifully written.
Nov. 4th, 2018 05:26 pm

book sales

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  • 90% off all ebooks at Haymarket Books through Nov 9. Gonna get all of Rebecca Solnit's books, plus maybe some Angela Davis. I honestly have no idea who else is good at this publisher. Naomi Wolf maybe? 
  • Chronicle Books has a monthly ebook sale. Lots of cookbooks. I got Jerusalem and Ottolenghi via these sales for about $2.99. Sales on certain books will repeat, so if it's not on sale this month, check next month.
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Man do I have mixed feelings about this series. It is a well-written, funny, fast, lighthearted read, and the protagonists are likeable, and the descriptions of various meals leave me hungry, but the insane cataloging of everything rich people do in Asian circles kind of make me want to throw up.

I feel like there's such a weird contrast with all the press Black Panther is getting for being inspirational to so many black people (and honestly, to me, too), and the upcoming press with the movie version of Crazy Rich Asians. Yes for representation, but does representation really have to take the form of overwhelming privilege? (I couldn't imagine buying out theaters for Asian/American kids to see this movie, you know?)

I mean you could argue that Rachel Chu, the protagonist, is nothing like the rest of the characters, but the actual title of the first book is Crazy Rich Asians, and the second is China Rich Girlfriend.

Nevertheless, I did find a lot to identify and crack up over, including descriptions of the politics of red envelopes, the different descriptions of how the aunties traveled to Paris and spent all their time heating up ramen in their luxury hotels because they couldn't stand all the cheese, the prejudices of Mainlanders/Singaporeans/HongKongers, etc. Those things were genuinely funny and really reflective of a lot of the dynamics in the Asian social groups I know. Also funny - when they're in Beijing and ask where the best xiu long bao is, and they're like, Din Tai Fung. :D

Side note: the Din Tai Fung in the Americana mall in Glendale is actually way better than the one in Arcadia. You still have to wait an hour if you get there after 11, though.
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I really like Anne Helen Petersen's writing, and I've been following it for a long time. I like what she's been doing over at Buzzfeed, so I was thrilled when someone actually bought this book for me at the office Christmas Secret Santa. I'm trying to make myself actually read these days, so this was a light, though not necessarily breezy read, and it still took me like a month to finish. Anyway, she profiles ten women, and points out the specific ways in which they are "unruly" - "too fat", "too slutty", etc. Some of these essays worked better than others.

1. Did not like Jennifer Weiner's chapter because it was mostly about her beef with Jonathan Franzen, and ended up being mostly about what an asshole Jonathan Franzen is. Let's actually talk about Weiner, if we want to celebrate her, yeah?
2. Hillary Clinton's chapter is good, but it also just leaves sooo much out. I guess if we want to talk about her it would end up taking several books. Honestly though I'm always dissatisfied when it comes to writing about her because there's always so much left on the table.
3. Loved the chapter on the "Broad City" women - they were "too gross".
4. The Serena Williams chapter was really good.
5. The Lena Dunham "too naked" chapter focuses on how much she likes to be naked and not nude. It does not cover any of her problematic racial issues.

This book could use some more women of color, for sure. She covers Nicki Minaj and Serena Williams and everyone else is white. It's also interesting reading this after #metoo - there's so much more to talk about now with everything coming out.l
Oct. 7th, 2017 10:36 pm

recently

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  • I started watching Rick and Morty with my husband. I just started from the last two or three episodes, and it's funny, but I kind of don't get it at the same time?
  • Started watching Star Trek: Discovery, really liking it so far. I have really vague ideas of the references to other shows, as I am not a Trekkie and still refer to one of the old Trek movies as "that one with the whale" but I'm enjoying it so far. I wish Michelle Yeoh was in more episodes though.
  • So Hulu has starting carrying all these old shows like Golden Girls and Hangin' With Mr. Cooper and Dinosaurs. I watched the first episodes of Dinosaurs and Hangin' With Mr. Cooper, and just had this moment like, "Oh my god they used to make shows about people with normal jobs." Like teachers! "Tree pushers!" It was a little disorienting.
  • I finished What Happened by Hillary Clinton and sort of feel like somebody should turn it into a Greek tragedy. Like, all of it was painful, but some parts more so than others. Also, unguarded Hillary Clinton is pretty funny and sarcastic. I'm still sorting out what I think of it - but overall it was pretty good, and thoroughly unsurprising.
  • So after reading the NYT takedown of Harvey Weinstein, and his non-apology apology and the removal of this app called Dirty Chinese Restaurant, I have concluded that it is now fashionable to declare yourself a fan of Jay-Z if you can't even credibly claim to have black friends. This does not negate the fact that Jay-Z was a misogynistic douche for the better part of two decades, at least, and making it up to Beyonce with his song does not make it up to everyone else who was a victim of his assholishness. So if they want to claim some woke influence, they need to look harder. But that would require work.
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Day 05 – A book that makes you happy

Man...this is difficult. Lots of books make me happy. Let's do Matilda, since I just re-read that with my daughter. I love smart little girls who outwit nasty adults and save the day.

Day 06 – A book that makes you sad

All those books where a dog needs to be put down because they got rabies. Old Yeller, Where the Red Fern Grows, etc.
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